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Summary: Turning heads at a club can be the best way to meet girls, learn how to pick up a girl in a bar and get important dating tips and techniques in this free video.
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Alex MacRae Alex MacRae recently received his Bachelors of Science in Psychology and became a social dynamics instructor for the Ask Romeo team. He has studied what makes... read more
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How to Turn Girl's Heads at a ClubHi, I'm Alex MacRae, a social dynamics instructor on behalf of expertvillage.com, I'm here today to talk to you about picking up women in bars and clubs. How do you own a bar or club? How do you get to the point where you can walk in the door and you don't have to go through the line, you automatically shake hands with the bouncer, you walk up to the bartender and they already have your favorite drink ready for you? Mainly, this takes time. A lot of guys think that to be buddy buddy with the bouncer or to be cool with the bartender takes money, fame or power. It actually takes none of those. Just time and interest. Find out what venue you're really interested in going to regularly and go there regularly. Introduce yourself to the bouncer each time, have small talk with him, remember he's meeting hundreds of people each night and most of them are intent on getting passed him. If you're willing to give him a few moments of your time eventually he will remember you and you could even be friends. Also, with the bartenders, let them know, oh by the way, I'll be here generally on Tuesdays and by the way, here's my favorite drink and oh, here's an extra tip. It'll only take a couple dollars up front the very first time to get them to notice you as a good paying customer. Eventually you could even get to know the owner, because if you go to a place long enough and make sure people are having a good time, that's a very valuable thing. And, the owner is going to make sure they're taken care of properly. So, eventually not only will you be able to go passed the bouncer, straight in passed the line, have your favorite drink, but the owner of the club could eventually say, hey, I like how you've taken care of things here, I like how when someone new comes in you introduce them so therefore, I'm going to give you and your friends the VIP table tonight, enjoy. Now, what does this have to do with meeting women in bars and clubs? A ton. If you don't have money, power and fame, you can have a lot of value to a woman if you own the bar or club, if you feel like it's your home, you know everyone there. A woman who finds an interesting bar or club is gonna have a good night, but it can be made extra special by meeting that guy of great value who has taken the time to get to know the regulars, befriend the bartender, befriend the bouncer and maybe even meet the owner. If she meets a man like that she's going to be very interested especially when you own it. Thanks for watching.
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I like the idea of "owning" the bar or club, I just see one small problem you need to overcome when it comes to the guy at the door, I'm talking the bouncer. I work as a bouncer and security guard myself personally I find that if people are working to hard to get my attention, they are trying to distract me. You need to know most bouncers will notice the person who isn't trying to just get by but it can at times be the way you don't want to be remembered. I have had people try to keep me from noticing stuff by distracting me. Therefore you need to be careful when you are talking I had one situation when a girl was distracting me and her two underage friends snuck in before her. One thing to do is make sure if there is a rope that the bouncer doesn't open it before you start talking. If you do it will come across in some cases as you trying to let someone sneak in. Basically use common sense when you talk to the guy who's job is on the line if a problem arises. Make sure you pick the end of the line and a time when it's not busy, sometimes it's better to get in and later on bring a can of coke out to him when he isn't so busy. Trick is let him open it, staff can't drink and your actions can be taken the wrong way if he thinks you are trying to get him in trouble. It may be easier to get to know the bouncer when he is less busy if busy at all. One of the best times is when the door isn't busy and the bouncer you need to make the connection with is at the door. I don't like being distracted when I am watching the floor for unruly behavior, all it takes is my mind distracted for a second for something small to become a big fight that could have been stopped if I had been paying attention. The door is your best bet as all that is on my mind is the two way in my ear and the ID's being valid, real and of age.