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Summary: Having confidence while meeting a girl in a bar can be as important as what you say, get important social interaction tips and advice in this free video.
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Alex MacRae Alex MacRae recently received his Bachelors of Science in Psychology and became a social dynamics instructor for the Ask Romeo team. He has studied what makes... read more
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Questions & AnswersHi guys I'm Alex MacRae a social dynamics instructor on behalf of expertvillage.com I'm here today to talk about picking a woman up at a bar or a club. Confidence a lot of women say that they find it sexy but what is it? Well a lot of guys over think this. Confidence to a woman is the simple fact that you are comfortable with yourself and you are comfortable with making connection. A guy who can talk about anything, is a very good listener and that can admit when there is something he doesn't know or if it is a topic that he is not sure about is confidence. So for example if a woman is talking about shoes and he rather ask her something else about her life. If admits that and takes charge that is confidence. Now you might be asking yourself how do I get confidence? Where do I build it into my life? Well it is not a thing as so much of a state of mind and the state of mind that you acquire can come from the people that you associate yourself with. There is a old quote that goes "The person you are is the average of the 5 people that you spend that most time with". So think about it. How confidence are the people that you work with, that you live with, that you hand out with? How much do they build up your confidence? Try to associate yourself with friends, relatives and coworkers that appropriate you for who you are and that build up your positive qualities. Last keep in mind that when you are out and introducing yourself to people and meeting people that you never meet before you are going to run into people who rather not talk to you. Don't take it personally remember that a woman who does not want to talk to you is not rejecting you, she is rejecting the situation in that moment. Maybe she is having a bad day, for all you know her cat just died, maybe she is having a bad hair day. So remember it is not that she is rejecting, it is the situation and the situation can always change with a better attitude. Thanks for watching.
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