How to Set Up a Date with a Girl

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Hi I'm Alex MacRae a social dynamics instructor on behalf of expertvillage.com I'm here today to talk about picking up women at a bar or a club. The date. Where do you go? What do you do? And how do you set it up? Think of date as a comfortable meeting place where you two can find out how will you get along. In general dinner dates and movie dates are a higher pressure than what you might think. A movie date assumes you to can sit still and quiet in a dark theater for two or three hours. A dinner date assumes you can hold a conversation while making sure you don't get ketchup on your face at the same time. The best dates are ones where is if not getting a long with the other person you can say see you later after a hour or two. One example of this is walking around at the mall. Say hey I'm going to go to the mall on Wednesday and pick up some stuff and you can come along and we can walk around. Absolutely. That way while you are there you know you can talk about what is going around you, you can talk about the shops, you can play the wishing game. You can say I wish I had that item, I wish I had that item. Other examples of dates are things that are built around things that you both enjoy. You want to make a date opportunity for you to find out if the woman that you are talking to is a type of woman that you want to continue a relationship with. In other words if you like football and if you want to meet a woman who appreciates football too, you can say "Hey on Thursday me and my buddies are watching the game at the sports bar you should swing by and hang out". I like football. It sounds good. Or you can go dancing you can say "Oh on Wednesday me and my friends are going to the Salsa Palace you should come by" again always have a plan the worst thing you can say is well let's go on a date what do you want to do. That serves that you do not have a plain and you want to make things a date. You don't have to call it a date just a meeting and where it goes from there is up to the two of you.

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