How to Flirt with a Girl

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Hi! This is Alex MacRae. I'm a social dynamics instructor. On behalf of expertvillage.com, today I am talking about picking up women in bars and clubs. Flirting, what is it? The basis of flirting is to convey through certain ideas and motions that you like someone else and hopefully that the other person likes you back. Now who are the best flirts in the world? They are actually little kids. Now why is that? Well for one thing, they have the best imaginations. If they are playing in the sandbox and they are talking about some fantastic place that they can go in the world, they are using their minds to put themselves in a place that there is just the two of them in their own special world using their imagination. Also, little kids are fearless. They realize at such a young age they have nothing to loose. They are comfortable with themselves. They are willing to take themselves to extreme and become in using their own imagination. One of the keys to flirting is actually to let the other person know through their voice and through their smile that you are flirting because a lot of the things that adults say that are flirting, can be taken the wrong way if you don't convey them with energy and fun. In other words, if I see a girl with blue eyes, I might say wow, your eyes are like blueberries. Wait can I actually, I'm kind of hungry, can I have? That is one thing that you can go into. That is fun and it will get a girl giggling in moments. Now notice what happens if I don't smile, if I bring my energy level lower, and if my voice tone is flat. Hey, I really like your eyes. They are blue like blueberries. Can I touch them? Can I have them. I am hungry. It is just strange. So remember to let people know that you are flirting, have a big smile, high energy and make sure that you are having a good time. If you are having a good time, it is likely that you will put other people around you in a good mood. So how do you flirt? What do you to to role play or actually husband and wife are negotiating a divorce. So I can babe, I'm sorry I have to do this, sorry to have to break this to you here but it's over. You know 10 years, had some good times. You can keep custody of the kids, you can keep the house but I'll keep the dog, Buddy. I trained Buddy myself and he's a good dog. So, bye now. Have a good life. Sorry this whole divorce thing worked out this way. See that is one thing that you can go into that is a little strange, fun and it puts you in a situation that would take you years to get into real life and you just met this girl. So remember you can role play situations that are fun and unusual. Another way to do things is to take things to the extreme. If I mention blueberry eyes, I might just say that off the cuff but I will take that to the extreme of what if here eyes were actually blueberry, what if I was a chef, what if I wanted to make a blueberry cake. What if the blueberry cake won the world's fair of being the best blueberry cake in the world and it was all because of her eyes and now she has a medical condition because she doesn't have eyes anymore because of the blueberries. You can see how all these things ca just building and build. It's a funny situation that are corky because something is so simple. So remember have fun, role play and remember that the kid in you was a great flirt.

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