How to Introduce Yourself to a Girl

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Hi! I'm Alex MacRae, a social dynamics instructor. On behalf of expertvillage.com, I am here today to talk about picking up women in a bar or club. Let's talk about initiating the chat; making introductions and greetings. There are basically two broad ways that you can introduce yourself; high energy or low energy. A high energy example that I remember was I was in a bar one recently that had a stuffed rhinoceros head on the wall. I thought of this old joke that my dad used to tell me. Hey, did you see that rhinoceros head on the bar. How fast do you think that must have been going to crash through there and get stuck. I don't know. I would say pretty fast. Must have been. By the way, I'm Alex. I'm Michele. By coming in high energy you demonstrate comedy, the fact that you are clever and that you are confident which are very attractive qualities. On the opposite end of the spectrum, you could introduce yourself in a way that is very calm, polite, sincere and low risk. Hi! I just saw you from across the way and I wanted to come over and introduce myself. I'm Alex. I'm Michelle. It's nice to meet you. Nice to meet you too. By introducing yourself in a low energy way, it is very low risk and at the same time you convey that you are warm, calm and down to earth guy. So in the end, keep in mind the fact that one of these two may be better for you. So find out what works best and use that to your advantage. Thanks a lot.

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